12/11/2023

PARASHAS TETZAVEH: ALL THE TIME OR EVERY TIME?

תמיד: כל לילה ולילה קרוי תמיד, כמו שאתה אומר עולת תמיד ואינה אלא מיום ליום, וכן במנחת חביתין נאמר תמיד, ואינה אלא מחציתה בבוקר ומחציתה בערב

“… to light the candle constantly” (Shemos 27:20)

Nightly is considered ‘constantly.’ Just as each עולת תמיד is called ‘constant’ but only offered once a day, and the מנחת חביתין is called ‘constant’ but only brought half in the morning and half in the evening… (Rashi)

Constancy is a major theme in the avodah of the Mishkan. Yet most of the avodah wasn’t actually continuous; it was performed every day or night at its prescribed time. 

Constancy doesn’t mean doing something all the time, rather doing it every single time. Like physical fitness, spiritual development requires repeating the same actions again and again, with unwavering commitment. Frequently revisiting the same mitzvah, without missing once, makes it central to our lives. That’s what makes a person change. 

That’s why so many mitzvos are built into our daily schedule. Shacharis, Mincha, Maariv. Tefillin, Krias Shema, Limud Torah. Frequent, uncompromising repetition is the foundation of personal development. 

Constancy isn’t a degree of frequency or duration; it’s a middah. The middah of constancy means readiness to do the same action again and again.

So too “hasmada” doesn’t mean you’re always learning. It means you come back to learning again and again, at every opportunity. People think the way to work on hasmada is to add more time to your learing sedarim. But that’s just increasing the action of learning, not strengthening the middah of hasmada. If we work on the middah, we’ll grow, not just accomplish more. Then learning for longer blocks of time will come to us easily. 

When our children play a game for hours on end, we think it’s a colossal waste of time. But they’re actually planting the seeds of their future hasmada! The children are honing their ability to repeat the same action again and again with enjoyment. They’re developing the middah of hasmada, even though the action they’re doing isn’t meaningful. Let them plant those seeds. With Hashem’s help, those seeds will later sprout a robust tree.

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